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Enjoy Longer Sexual Intercourse

Enjoy Longer Sexual Intercourse and Give Her EXPLOSIVE Orgasms on Command (Are You Missing This?)

Most men would love to enjoy longer sexual intercourse. But one thing about premature ejaculation that most guys never understand is that it is almost NEVER permanent. No doubt PE is one of the most painful, embarrassing and humiliating experiences in the bedroom. But the only thing that stands between perennial quick sex and long-lasting lovemaking is...YOU!

What do I mean? You see, most men think that they are "born" with, or naturally prone to suffer from premature ejaculation. They wrongly assume there is nothing they can do about it. But did you know that as many as 75 percent of men would love to last longer in bed? That is true. And a good number of them actually "learn" how to improve their sexual endurance!

Here's Another Thing That Most Guys Don't Understand...

A man's stamina in bed is not a true indicator of the amount of sexual satisfaction that a couple can get out of sex. Sure, some guys can go on for 20 or 30 minutes and give their women an orgasm. On the other hand, there are men who last less than 4 minutes but their women are enjoying great sex with them every single time!

Premature ejaculation is really subjective. It all depends on whether you and your woman are satisfied with the sex you are having. The key is to bring your partner to an orgasm sooner, rather than later. And a lot depends on what you do BEFORE sex to build her up sexually.

Bring Masculinity And Dominance Into The Bedroom!

Slow things down. Exhibit more masculine strength and dominance during the prelude to sex. Many women get really turned on by this show of masculinity and sexual confidence. Touch her like you own her during foreplay. Titillate her erotic senses. Recite your affirmations of your attraction and love for her.

This will mentally psyche her up, supercharge her sexual anticipation and potentially prime her for a really explosive orgasm on command! When that happens, premature ejaculation should NEVER become an issue for you!

Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting the Ejaculation By Command here:

How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation

How to Use Masturbation to Beat Premature Ejaculation (Secrets to Boost Stamina in Bed Exposed!)

If you have been wondering about how to beat premature ejaculation and increase your stamina in bed, you will want to read this now. Did you know that masturbation - if performed in the right way - can boost your sexual stamina? It's true. However, there are 4 important tips you need to remember if you are ever going to make a success out of it.

Tip #1 - Don't Ever Do It Without the Right Lubricant

The purpose of masturbation, especially when you are doing it to last longer in bed, is to make the experience as close as you can to normal sex. When you masturbate without a lubricant, your penis becomes extremely sensitive to a dry hand. So, once you start your experience with your woman, your penis will not be able to adjust to a warm and moist environment. Always use a lubricant when you are masturbating. It is the smart thing to do.

Tip #2 - Do Not Rush Through It

Men are naturally hardwired to stimulate themselves to ejaculate quickly during masturbation. But to adapt masturbatory techniques to boost sexual endurance, you have to do it differently. Take it S-L-O-W. If you are the type who gets it over in one minute flat, you may have a tough job getting used to it. Here's the trick: Stop all stimulation when you feel close to a climax.

Remember, masturbation should be a process of training when you have premature ejaculation. Rushing through it - no matter how eager you are about getting off - is the worst thing you do. You should progressively stretch the process out to 15 to 20 minutes, so that you reap real benefits from this technique.

Tip #3 - Do Not Get Distracted

The right time to train yourself is when you are relaxed, and not likely to be distracted. If you are in a hurry, just don't do it.

Tip #4 - Avoid Getting Overly Excited

Most men go about using this technique in an incorrect manner. You see, some men will watch pornography until they start getting an arousal. Then they start to stimulate themselves. That is wrong. Ideally, you should be building up the arousal right from the start. It is only then that you will understand when and how to control your arousal, which is the most vital component in helping you enjoy longer lasting sex without ejaculating early.

Remember, you can use masturbation not just for your own self-seeking pleasure, but as a super effective springboard to control your premature ejaculation. These four tips will get you started the right way.

About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of "Ejaculation By Command", a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.

How to Have Longer Sex

How to Have Longer Sex - Optimize Your Sexual Stamina With This Secret (Works Like a Charm!)

Many companies want you to believe that you can last longer in bed by using the veritable avalanche of products in their offerings. While you can add minutes to your sexual encounters using stuff like numbing sprays, specialty condoms or special ointments, these products have their own severe limitations. For one, you have to continually depend on them whenever you want to have sex. They are not a permanent cure; just a temporary "band-aid".

Lasting Longer Through Arousal Control

The best way to last longer during sex is by controlling your arousal during sex. To achieve this sexual milestone, you have to first understand the four stages of male sexual arousal. Arousal is basically the sensations you go through when you become sexually stimulated. By paying close attention to how your body responds and reacts throughout these four stages, you will be in a better position to control how long each stage lasts and enjoy sex to the fullest.

The Stages Of Sexual Arousal (Simplified)

Briefly, stage one is when your penis starts to get an erection; stage two takes place when the arousal begins to increase, your erection becomes full but you are still in control. Stage three occurs when the arousal intensifies, your penis glans expand, become more sensitive and you are right on the edge of ejaculation. This culminates into stage four when your nervous system tips over, causing your perineal muscles to contract and releasing ejaculation.

To last longer in bed, you basically need to stretch out the four stages for as long as possible. "Premature ejaculators" can go from stage one to four within a minute or less while those with superior endurance can extend their lovemaking to an hour or more.

Among the four stages of arousal, stage two holds the key. This means you have to strive to remain in stage two for as long as you can. Once you hit stage three, there is practically no turning back - even if your mother suddenly trots into your room!

Achieving "Arousal Longevity"

So how do you achieve longevity in stage two? Simple - by relaxing your entire mind and body. This key to do this is to focus on giving rather than taking. Read that again! It is that important.

You need to concentrate on exclusively giving your woman sexual pleasure by touching, caressing and stimulating her erogenous areas - the very ones that she love to be touched. Every woman is different, so you got to find out where these are! By taking focus away from your own genital pleasure, you can dwell in stage two for as long you as want, until your lady is sufficiently stimulated to have intercourse.

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How to Avoid Premature Ejaculation

How to Avoid Premature Ejaculation - Stop These 3 Things and Turbo-Charge Your Stamina in Bed!

The problem of premature ejaculation is not something out of this world. It happens to almost 40% of men at some stage of their lives. The only problem is that it tends to last long and has a negative impact on your personal life. Are you sure you are doing everything to prevent this from happening? We are not talking about reading up countless books! Take a look at the checklist below and make sure you are not bringing these upon yourself.

What Are The 3 Things You Should Avoid?

#1 - The Effects of Stress

Stress is your worst enemy, as far as your premature ejaculation goes. Whether it is related to your job or your performance in bed, stress can wreck havoc on your body. It leads to an increase in your blood pressure, a surge of adrenaline and a peaking of your sexual pleasure before you have had a chance to enjoy it fully. So what do you do about it?
Try to make a conscious effort to relax whenever you feel yourself go tense and stressed out. Take deep, thoughtful breaths and watch that tension ebb away.

#2 - Getting Mad

Believe it or not, being angry during sex can cause you to lose ejaculatory control in just a few moments. This happens in 2 ways. First of all, anger releases a surge of negative feelings within you. More importantly, it cuts out the communication that is so vital when you are making love. Think about it. You are not looking into her eyes - they are glowering at you in all probability, and that is NEVER good for your arousal control. What's more, the surge of blood will make you lose control of your ejaculation reflexes very quickly, sometimes within seconds!

#3 - Wrong Masturbation Techniques

Strange as it sounds, the right masturbation technique can help you last longer. But a wrong way of self-stimulation can cause more harm than good. What are we talking about? If you have been used to a quick fix when you are pleasing yourself, it will be reflected in bed. The logic is simple. Your body becomes accustomed to a quick orgasm (and a weak one) when you masturbate quickly. The other problem is when you masturbate too frequently. If you are getting off by yourself three times a day, and getting off fast, you are spoiling your chances when the real thing hits in bed, so beware!

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What is Premature Ejaculation

What exactly is premature ejaculation? Well, it depends on who you ask. But the common consensus is that if you regularly come to a climax too early during sex without fulfilling your partner, you may be one of many men who are suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). As many as one in three men are believed to be afflicted with this sexual dysfunction. Actual figures may actually be higher as this is an embarrassing ailment that not many guys are willing to openly discuss.

What are the symptoms of premature ejaculation?

Premature ejaculation can be categorized by lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). The former can be characterized by early ejaculation within one minute following intercourse. This is often accompanied by a severe lack of confidence in bed and in worst cases, an avoidance of sex altogether. On the other hand, secondary PE is often marked by persistent ejaculation before both you and your partner wish that it happens. Guys who are experiencing secondary PE usually have enjoyed fulfilling sexual relationships in the past.

Are you at risk?

There are some men who are at higher risks of developing premature ejaculation. These include guys who are suffering from some form of erectile dysfunction. Men who have problems with erection often subconsciously hurry through sexual intercourse for fear of losing their erections. One of the biggest contributors to early ejaculation is stress or emotional strain. So men who are often emotionally stressed out are at a higher risk of ejaculating early during sex. This is nature's way of releasing tension that has been pent up.

Do you need to seek medical attention?

If your lack of sexual endurance is causing great distress to you and your partner, it is recommended that you seek medical assistance. The doctor would be able to advice on the appropriate treatment to help you cope with the problem. In some cases, the doctor will even suggest that you are not even experiencing early ejaculation, especially if it occurs only occasionally. Likewise, if you can satisfy your partner even if you do not last more than 2 to 4 minutes during intercourse, there is no real cause for concern.

Coping with premature ejaculation

There are many forms of treatments, and what you choose to use will depend on the severity of your condition. These options include natural sexual therapy and conditioning, such as the squeeze technique to re-wire your ejaculatory triggers; medications that include the use of anti-depressants or topical anesthetic creams or sprays.

The bottom line is, premature ejaculation is very common and is a treatable condition. By understanding why you are ejaculating prematurely, you can use the appropriate solutions to permanently end your ejaculation problems and achieve the coveted ability to enjoy long-lasting sex!